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irstly, it is important to correct an outrageous error that
spread as fast as bad news is know to, all over the Nigerian media and
blogosphere. The senate proceedings on child marriage were actually not about
child marriage. Section 29 is in respect to the right of a married lady no
matter how young, to be empowered “of age,” to take important decisions like
renunciation of her citizenship, if she so desires–to seek foreign asylum for
instance.
Being “of age” after a legal marriage is global legislative setting
which proffers on the individual various rights and abilities to make decisions
and choices to be respected by all parties and the state, as well as
entitlements. Marriage must first have occurred legally and the topic of
marriage age and requirements is not covered under section 29 in view.
Age of marriage in America
The United States is by no means a standard for Nigeria’s
legal decisions or considerations, however for a robust conversation; I will
like to point out the ages of marriage in various states in America. In all
states, to marry without parental and/or court consent, the minimal age is 18.
But, with parental and in some cases, additional family court consent, the ages
of marriage are rather interesting and will be a cause of grief for Nigerian
senators and the media, no doubt: New York has the minimum being 14 years.
North Carolina allows marriage at 14 years too. South Carolina sets it at 14
for females and 16 for males. And New Hampshire sets their minimum age of
marriage at 13 years.
But it gets more interesting. In several states, there is
actually no legal minimum age of marriage. Nigerians will say, ‘so you can
marry at one year old?’ Yes, so it appears in the United States–with court
approval, theoretically you can. Washington state, Tennessee, Pennsylvania,
Texas and Rhode Island states set no minimum age of marriage for Americans.
Once you can get court approval, you can marry in these states, regardless of
your biological age. This information is freely available online. This website
carries it:http://www.usmarriagelaws.com/search/united_states/teen_marriage_laws/
Who is a child?
This is the next relevant question in this essay. The
phrase, ‘child marriage,’ is notably unpleasant. So we will summarily discuss
who a child is. There are two markers for the defining of who a child is.
Western/UN: According to the United Nations (UN), a child is
“a human being below the age of 18 years unless under the law applicable to the
child, majority is attained earlier”. Thus, the UN defines child based on the
‘age of majority,’ which is set by the state. Age of majority, as opposed to
‘minority,’ or being a minor, is an age limit set by countries usually ‘18,’ by
which time minors have assumed the legal rights of adults.
Biological/Cultural: According to medical science and
biology, as well as from a traditional and cultural perspective, an adult is
anyone who has attained puberty. Puberty is defined as physical and social
maturity, based on hormonal changes and their related effects on the
individual. This is called ‘Biological adulthood.’
The day I hit puberty, I stopped being a child
As can be expected, Western/UN adulthood hardly ever
correspond with biological/traditional adulthood. One, the former is strictly
based on years and does not consider the physical attributes of the individual,
whereas the later, Biological adulthood, considers the attributes and
development of the individual on a case basis. From an economic stand point,
the former, Western/UN adulthood based on set age of majority, is more easy to
regulate, as it will limit assessments needed to check individual by
individual, the physiological and social maturity as the later demands. With
this understanding, we get an insight into the rules of marriage in the United
States. The approval for minors (children) is granted by a court which
evaluates biological maturity, as these states in America do not subject
themselves to the adult age regulations of the Western/UN maturity ‘age of
majority.’
It is also important to mention at this stage, that the UN
strictly in a big-brotherly manner, watches and criticizes developing nations
who utilize similar methods as the United States does, not relying devotedly on
the global UN recommended age of majority set point, simply because we,
Africans for instance are not mature, and our health care system can not cope
with nutrition related complications of biological maturity marriageability
determination. This leads us to the next aspect:
VVF (Vesico-Vaginal Fistulae)
Does early marriage predispose to VVF? The surprising answer
is no, not anymore than living in Russia causes rickets. Early marriage and
pregnancy does not cause fistulas unless you are malnourished and in a third
world country with poor health care. The United States is developed world
leader in teen pregnancies. With up to 500,000 teen pregnancies per year and
over 4000 pregnancies at age 12, the United States should have some of the
highest VVF rates in the world, but not so. VVF is not a problem in America,
this is because of nutrition and good health care. Consequently, the UN does
not breath down their necks. See:http://www.nationmaster.com/graph/hea_tee_pre-health-teenage-pregnancy
VVF arises as a result of obstructed labor due to multiple
causes, either due to Cephalo Pelvic Disproportion CPD (“the baby is too big
and/or the pelvis too narrow”) or Malposition (“the baby comes the wrong way” –
ex. transverse or oblique):
A study from Nigeria found that more than 30% of the fistula
patients were younger than 16 years of age. These women usually have had just 1
pregnancy. In Ethiopia, more than 60% of the fistulas seen are a result of a
woman’s first delivery’s mentioned previously, these women are usually isolated
and have limited support. Another study from Nigeria found that 80% of fistula
patients had been abandoned and 60% were divorced or separated. An overwhelming
number of these women are uneducated. One report from Nigeria found that 99.4%
of the fistula patients were illiterate. In another report of 1443 patients who
underwent surgery for vesico-vaginal fistulas, only 3 had received any
conventional education. As a result, these women maintain a subordinate
position in society. They are often excluded from decision making, even
decision making about their own health. As noted by Zacharin, “in an unequal
world, these women are the most unequal among the unequal.”
Another factor is the lack of skilled obstetric providers in
the developing world. It has been said that the incidence of obstetric fistulas
is a direct indicator of quality obstetric care in an area. It is easy to
understand that Ethiopia has one of the highest rates of obstetrical fistulas,
considering the fact that there are more Ethiopian doctors in New York City
than in Ethiopia. Source:http://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/455965_4
This issue should be righted so that something wron g will not start having in this country
ReplyDeleteWe cannot follow united states standard
ReplyDeletethank you my friend
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